Many parents have been receiving lots of
sharing, information and advice from their elderly parents,
relatives, friends as well as the professionals. These various kinds
of information have often confused the young and new parents,
stirring their emotion and causing anxiety. Some are even
contradicting from one another.
One important thing to understand when faces this little new family
member is to understand the development of the bonding between you
and the little one. Bonding, which often being thought of as highly
complicated, can be just as simple as "love" or the "attachment"
between the parent and child. So, the question is, how do we develop
this bond and love? Does it come naturally? Many of us have been
taking it for granted and fail to notice how it even exists.